One of the most important skills in your life and within personal leadership is asking good questions. If you ask yourself an unclear question or uninspiring question, chances are you will also get an answer that you can't do much with or little inspiration. Good powerful questions lead to solutions and experiencing more inspiration, happiness, enthusiasm, pride, gratitude or love.

The trick is to focus on the solution, that which you want to achieve. People's pitfall is to focus on what they don't want instead of what they do want. If you ask yourself good questions and keep asking them until you get a concrete answer, you can solve most problems.

You want to go to the gym more often, only you don't go. You feel like you are insecure about something. The trick is to keep asking yourself: What am I insecure about? What is the worst thing that could happen? Where do these feelings come from? Are they facts or thoughts? To what extent are they real things that are hindering me? What would have to happen for me to stop being insecure? What action can I take? Or what can I do so that I even start to like it?